Welcome to Beyond the Chaos
I'm so glad you're here!
Welcome. You made it.
Whatever it took to get here β you're here. And that matters.
This is a place for you. Not to fix everything at once. Not to get it right. Just to begin β gently, at your own pace, with support around you.
Below you'll find everything you need to find your way around. Come back to this page whenever you need it.
Begin wherever feels right today
There's no right place to start. Just three gentle options β choose whichever feels most like you today.
If you have 20 minutes β start with the first lesson inside The Path. It's gentle and designed to help you settle in, not overwhelm you.
If you just need something to listen to β the podcast is there. Put it on while you make a cup of tea. Just listening counts.
If you want to feel less alone β come into the community and have a look around. Even just reading what others have shared can help. You don't have to say anything yet.
Finding your way around the app
The three lines (top left) β this is your main menu. Tap here to see everything inside the app β Start Here, Journey BTC, The Path, Coaching Calls, and more. If you're ever looking for something and can't find it, start here.
The bell (top bar) β your notifications.
The paper aeroplane (top bar) β your direct messages. Use this to message Sandra privately anytime.
Your profile icon (top right) β this takes you to your settings page. This is where you can add a photo or avatar, and importantly, where you can turn on notifications so you're alerted when something new happens in the community. It's worth doing this early so you don't miss anything.
Library (bottom of the screen) β a quick way to access The Path and the podcast anytime.
Community (bottom of the screen) β takes you straight to the community chat.
The Path β how it works
The Path is the heart of Beyond the Chaos. It's where the deeper work happens β at your own pace, on your own timeline, always on your terms.
It's a curriculum that builds gradually β each module creates the foundation for the next. That's intentional. The work moves in a particular order because the order matters. You don't need to rush it. You just need to keep coming back to it.
How modules unlock: Your Path starts the moment you join. In the first two weeks you'll have two modules to begin with. From there a new module opens every four weeks β giving you time to actually work through each one before the next arrives.
No one is ahead of you. No one is behind you. Everyone moves on their own timeline from the day they joined.
What each module includes: Each module has around four lessons. Every lesson includes a short video from Sandra, a written lesson to work through, and a simple exercise β designed to be gentle, not overwhelming. Each one ends with an invitation to share something in the community, if you want to.
No module is ever finished. You'll find yourself coming back to lessons at different moments in your journey β and something that didn't land the first time will often land completely differently later. That's not a sign you missed something. That's how this work works.
The private podcast β Journey Beyond the Chaos
Each week a new podcast episode drops. It's warm, personal, and story-led β Sandra thinking out loud about something that matters to the mothers here.
The podcast moves freely across the territory of The Path β sometimes it'll connect to something you've already worked through, sometimes it'll open something up before you get there in the modules. Either way it meets you where you are.
You'll see a post in the community chat each week when a new episode is available. You can also find itΒ in the Library.
The weekly coaching call
Every Wednesday at 7:30 PM NZT there is a live group coaching call on Zoom. This is where the work meets real life β where you can bring what you're sitting with and work through it together.
The call follows the theme of that week's podcast episode. You don't need to have listened before you come β but listening beforehand can help you arrive ready.
You're welcome from day one. You don't need to have done any lessons first. You don't need to share anything. You can simply be in the room.
You'll find the Zoom link in the Coaching Calls tab, and a weekly invite is posted in the community chat each week.
Can't make it live? Post your question or reflection in the community chat on Wednesday and Sandra will bring it into the call. After each session Sandra will share a summary of what was covered for anyone who couldn't be there.
Recordings aren't shared, to protect everyone's privacy.
Your Connection Call
As a member you have a free 60-minute one-on-one Connection Call with Sandra included in your membership β to use whenever you're ready. There's no rush. When you want to use it, book it here.
Getting in touch
Email β [email protected] Community chat β tag Sandra in a post or send a direct message anytime
A few common questions
Can I ask personal questions in the community? Yes. This space is for your real life, not just general questions. If something feels too private to post, you can email or message Sandra directly instead.
How do I update my payment details? Log in, click your profile icon in the top right, and go to Settings. You can update your payment information from there.
How do I pause or cancel? If you need to take a break or step away, email Sandra or send her a direct message and she'll take care of it. She'll confirm once everything is sorted.
You've done the hardest part by showing up. Everything else can come one small step at a time.
β Sandra x
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