You’ve Tried Everything. Now It’s Time for a New Way Forward, One That Finally Makes Sense

Beyond the Chaos is a step-by-step membership for mums navigating their child's substance use. It’s here to help you understand their behavior, reclaim your well-being, and feel supported by someone who truly gets it.

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You don’t have to figure this out on your own anymore.

Inside Beyond the Chaos, you’ll find steady support, evidence-based tools, and proven strategies, to help you take powerful steps, one at a time.

➔ Join for just $59/month (40% off) Cancel anytime. Doors open again on 22nd July - for 3 days only. 

 "This is a space that is deeply supportive. A space where we grow together and one where I have been able to learn techniques and gather tools that are now embedded in my every day interactions with the chaos that surrounds." - Founding Memeber

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Imagine waking up with a quiet sense of hope...

Not because everything around you has changed,
but because something inside you has.

You're no longer bracing for the next crisis.
You're no longer doubting every decision.
You're beginning to build influence through trust, not control.
You're reconnecting with your child, without losing yourself.
You're steady. Grounded. Clear.
Even when things are still hard.

This is where real change begins,
with small, intentional shifts that rebuild trust, hope, and connection.

Why I Created Beyond the Chaos

When I was in the thick of it, living on high alert, second-guessing everything, trying so hard to say the right thing (or avoid saying the wrong one), I kept searching for something that just… didn’t exist.

I didn’t need more judgment, more guilt, or another person telling me to use “tough love” and let them hit rock bottom.
I needed a real path forward.
One that didn’t ask me to give up on my child.

Beyond the Chaos is the space I wish I’d had.

It’s the space I needed.
To understand what was really happening underneath the chaos.
To respond with calm—not just react in fear.
To start healing myself, even while my child was still struggling.

When I couldn’t find that space, I made a decision.

I trained as a health coach, mental health coach, and family recovery coach, because I needed to understand what actually helps, and how to create real lasting change.

And then, I built it.

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"Sandra's attention to detail and her awareness of the subtle changes she can see in me has really helped me to recognize the changes in myself and see myself more positively with self compassion."  - Founding Member

What's Inside the Membership:

 

Healing happens when you’re not alone

Life is just better with the right circle of women around you.

Inside Beyond the Chaos, you’ll be surrounded by other mums who truly get it, mums who understand the fear, the hope, the hard choices, and the quiet wins.

This is your safe space to share what’s real.
To ask the hard questions without fear of judgment. 
To celebrate small victories that the outside world might not understand. 
To feel supported, encouraged, and never alone.

You don’t have to explain yourself here. 
You don’t have to have it all together. 
You just have to show up, exactly as you are.

And you’ll be welcomed with understanding, compassion, and hope.

Steady Support, Week After Week

You don’t have to carry this alone anymore.

Each week, you’ll have access to live group coaching sessions where you can ask questions, get personalized support, and learn strategies that actually work.

Whether you show up live or catch the replay, you’ll have expert guidance to help you move forward—with more clarity, more confidence, and more calm.

Every session is a chance to be seen, supported, and reminded:
You’re not powerless here.
You’re not alone.

 

Small Shifts That Lead to Big Change

Big change doesn’t come from trying harder. 
It comes from small, steady shifts—one powerful step at a time.

Inside Beyond the Chaos, you’ll move through the Success Path with weekly lessons—short, manageable, and designed to shift your approach without overwhelm.

Each lesson gives you practical, evidence-based tools you can start using right away.
From understanding addiction, to setting boundaries, to communicating in ways that rebuild trust—you’ll be supported every step of the way.

You don’t have to get it perfect.
You just have to keep moving forward—one small, powerful shift at a time.

 
"I love the way Sandra gently guides and supports us by delivering bite-sized pieces of material each week to work on..the timing always feels perfect for me and never feels overwhelming or too much to get through.

The weekly coaching calls really help to 'steady the storm' in dealing with the challenges of my son who struggles with substance abuse." - Founding Member

We’re welcoming new members at our special reopening rate of $59 NZD/month.

That’s nearly 40% off the full price of $97/month. No lock-in period, cancel anytime.

Doors open again on 22nd July, for 3 days only. 

➔ Join the Waitlist Now – $59 

If you’ve been waiting for something that feels possible…
Something steady, supportive, and gorunded in real change,
This is it.

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"I appreciate having a safe space to share with others who are navigating a journey that at times feels insurmountable but with the support of this group now feels a little easier and less lonely"-Founding Member

 

"Joining Sandra's Beyond the Chaos has given me skills to assist me to not lose sight of myself as I deal with the chaos of my son's addiction.  The group chats have helped me realise I am not alone as others deal with similar issues.  I have learned techniques to respond to unjustified criticism to prevent escalation of verbal abuse." - Founding Member

 

"Finally someone who makes sense and I can resonate with." - Podcast Listener

"Thank you Sandra for your support and invaluable learnings you gave me, I’ll be forever grateful." - Coaching Client

 

"Sandra gave me some invaluable insights into how addiction works and how to see things from their side, understanding behaviours. This is so tricky to do when you are in the thick of it but with Sandra’s calming and compassionate nature, she made it really easy to understand." - Coaching Client

 

Is This for You?

 

➔ If you’re here… you’ve probably tried it all.
You’ve stayed up worrying.
Googled at 2am. Read the books. Followed the advice.

And underneath it all, there’s a quiet ache:
Why isn’t anything working?

➔ That’s exactly why I created Beyond the Chaos.

This isn’t just another support group.
It’s a space for mums who are ready for a new approach—
One that’s grounded in compassion, backed by evidence,
And designed to support you while still showing up for your child.

This is for you if...

 

➔ You want a clear path forward—so you’re not constantly second-guessing yourself
➔ You want to understand your child’s behavior—so you can stop blaming yourself
➔ You want to learn how to influence change—without trying to control it
➔ You want support from a coach and community who truly get it
➔ And most of all—you want to come back to yourself again
(your peace, your steadiness, your strength)

 

“I’m Interested… But What If I Don’t Keep Up?”

That makes sense.

This isn’t about doing everything perfectly.
It’s about choosing something different, just one small step at a time.

Some members show up live. Others listen to the replays. Some begin slowly, with just one lesson.

However you choose to begin, you’ll be supported.
You don’t need to fix everything overnight.

You just need to stop doing it alone.

Take a Step Beyond the Chaos 

You are stronger than the chaos.

You deserve real support, real tools, and a path that actually helps.

Beyond the Chaos was built for mums just like you, mums who are ready for something different.

Let this be the step that changes everything.

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We’re welcoming new members at our special reopening rate of $59 NZD/month.

That’s nearly 40% off the full price of $97/month. No lock-in period, cancel anytime.

Doors open again on 22nd July, for 3 days only. 

➔ Join the Waitlist Now– $59 

If you’ve been waiting for something that feels possible…
This is it.

CANCEL ANYTIME

Join the Waitlist