Beyond the Chaos MembershipÂ
THERE IS ANOTHER WAY FORWARD
One that eases the blame, builds connection, and gives you hope again.
You donât have to figure this out on your own anymore.
Inside Beyond the Chaos, youâll find steady support, evidence-based tools, and proven strategies to help you take powerful stepsâone at a time.
âThis is a space that is deeply supportive. A space where we grow together and one where I have been able to learn techniques and gather tools that are now embedded in my everyday interactions with the chaos that surrounds.â
â Founding Member
â Join for just $59NZD/month.
And youâre free to stay as long as it supports you. No contracts, no pressure â just steady support when you need it.
Because you donât have to wait for rock bottom, and you donât have to walk this road alone.
Change can start today â with you.
Imagine waking up with a quiet sense of hope...
Not because everything around you has changed,
but because something inside you has.
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You're no longer bracing for the next crisis.
You're no longer doubting every decision.
You're beginning to build influence through trust, not control.
You're reconnecting with your child, without losing yourself.
You're steady. Grounded. Clear.
Even when things are still hard.
This is where real change begins,
with small, intentional shifts that rebuild trust, hope, and connection.
INTRODUCING...
BEYOND
THE CHAOS
MEMBERSHIP
FIND ANOTHER WAY FORWARD.
Youâve likely tried it allârules, consequences, tough love, stepping back, rescuing, hoping it would finally be enough.
But nothing has worked the way it was promised.
Beyond the Chaos is here to show you a different path.
This membership is a steady, supportive space for mums who want to reclaim their wellbeing while creating the conditions for positive change.
Together, we take small, doable steps that bring relief now and create real change over timeâfor you, your family, and your relationship with your child.
A PRIVATE COMMUNITY
Mumâtoâmum encouragement with a simple weekly rhythm (Friday intentions, Tuesday checkâins).
WEEKLY LIVE COACHING CALLS
Bring real situations and get support. Cameraâoff welcome. 2x weekly
MEMBERS ONLY PODCASTÂ
(15â18 mins) of real talk you can listen to on the go, every week.
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A GUIDED SUCCESS PATH
Short videos + practical exercises to build steadiness, protect your wellbeing, and strengthen connection.
Hey there, I'm Sandra and here's
Why I Created Beyond the Chaos
When I was in the thick of it, living on high alert, second-guessing everything, trying so hard to say the right thing (or avoid saying the wrong one), I kept searching for something that just⌠didnât exist.
I didnât need more judgment, more guilt, or another person telling me to use âtough loveâ or let them "hit rock bottom".
I needed a real path forward.
One that didnât ask me to give up on my child.
Beyond the Chaos is the space I wish Iâd had.
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Itâs the space I needed.
To understand what was really happening underneath the chaos.
To respond with calmânot just react in fear.
To start healing myself, even while my child was still struggling.
When I couldnât find that space, I made a decision.
I trained as a health coach, mental health coach, and family recovery coach, because I needed to understand what actually helps, and how to create real lasting change.
And then, I built it.
Weâre welcoming new members now
If youâve been waiting for something that feels possible
or the right time to finally do this differently.Â
This is it.
â Join Beyond the Chaos â $59NZD/monthÂ
No contracts, just steady support when you need it.
"Joining Sandra's Beyond the Chaos had given me skills to assist me to not lose sight of myself as I deal with the chaos of my son's addiction. The group chats have helped me realize I am not alone as others deal with similar issues"
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Founding Member
"Sandra gave me some valuable insights into how addiction works and how to understand behaviors. This is tricky to do when you're in the thick of it, but with Sandra's calm and compassionate nature, she made it really easy to understand."
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Coaching Client
IS THE FOR YOU?
â If youâre here⌠youâve probably tried it all.
Youâve stayed up worrying.
Googled at 2am. Read the books. Followed the advice.
And underneath it all, thereâs a quiet ache:
Why isnât anything working?
â Thatâs exactly why I created Beyond the Chaos.
This isnât just another support group.
Itâs a space for mums who are ready for a new approachâ
One thatâs grounded in compassion, backed by evidence,
And designed to support you while still showing up for your child.
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This is for you if...
â You want a clear path forwardâso youâre not constantly second-guessing yourself
â You want to understand your childâs behaviorâso you can stop blaming yourself
â You want to learn how to influence changeâwithout trying to control it
â You want support from a coach and community who truly get it
â And most of allâyou want to come back to yourself again (your peace, your steadiness, your strength)
âIâm Interested⌠But What If I Donât Keep Up?â
That makes sense.
This isnât about doing everything perfectly.
Itâs about choosing something different, just one small step at a time.
Some members show up live. Others listen to the replays. Some begin slowly, with just one lesson.
However you choose to begin, youâll be supported.
You donât need to fix everything overnight.
You just need to stop doing it alone.
Take a Step Beyond the ChaosÂ
Beyond the Chaos was built for mums just like you, mums who are ready for something different. Let this be the step that changes everything.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
If you have a question thatâs not listed here, email me directly at [email protected].