You don’t have to carry this on your own.
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Beyond the Chaos is steady, practical support for mums navigating addiction or mental-health challenges in their adult child.
It’s for mums who are overwhelmed, worried, and exhausted from living in constant high alert — never quite sure how to respond, when to step in, or how to protect themselves along the way.
Inside the membership, you’ll find calm guidance, practical support, and a steady place to land — so you can respond with more clarity and confidence, even when things feel uncertain.
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JOIN BEYOND THE CHAOSWhat’s Inside Beyond the Chaos
Beyond the Chaos is a gentle, practical support system designed to help you feel steadier — and to support you in creating calmer conditions around you and your family, without adding more overwhelm.
Inside the membership, you’ll find:
• Weekly meet-ups for connection, clarity, and steady support
• The Path — short, steady lessons to help you understand what’s happening and how to respond
• A private members-only podcast, so you can listen in your own time, wherever you are
• A calm, supportive community of mums who truly get it — where you’re not doing this alone
• Simple tools and practices to help you feel more grounded from week to week
• Me in your back pocket — someone to turn to for calm perspective and reassurance when things feel heavy
It’s about supporting you — so you can stay steady, respond with clarity, and keep connection and influence possible over time.
Beyond the Chaos
MEMBERSHIP
was built for mums just like you —and it’s designed to
meet you right where you are.
Membership is $67 NZD per month.
You can cancel anytime.
"Beyond the Chaos has been life-changing in a subtle, meaningful way.
The weekly bite-sized lessons never feel overwhelming, and the coaching calls help steady me when things with my son get hard."Â
FOUNDING MEMBER
Here's What We'll Walk Through Together
Step Into Support
You don’t have to keep carrying this on your own.
You’ll be met with understanding, steadiness, and ongoing support — right where you are.
Learn What Actually Helps
Gentle tools and insights to help you steady yourself, reduce conflict, and respond with more clarity and confidence.
Create Space for Change
As you become steadier, you create calmer conditions around you — keeping connection and influence possible, even if your child isn’t ready yet.
Beyond the Chaos Membership is Right For You If:
- You're tired of living in constant fear, overwhelm and emotional exhaustion
- You’ve tried everything you can think of, but nothing seems to make things better.
- You want more connection, steadiness, and influence — even if your child isn’t ready for change yet.
You're in the right place!
About Sandra
I’m Sandra. I work with mums who have been carrying more than anyone should for a very long time.
I don’t believe change comes from pressure, fear, or trying harder. I’ve lived what that costs — and I’ve seen how quickly it can erode connection, energy, and self-trust.
My work is grounded in steadiness, respect, and staying engaged without losing yourself. I won’t promise outcomes I can’t control — but I will help you show up in ways that protect your wellbeing and keep influence possible, even when things feel uncertain.
Beyond the Chaos isn’t about fixing your child or disappearing from their life. It’s about learning how to stay present, set boundaries, and live with yourself along the way — whatever happens next.
JOIN BEYOND THE CHAOS“Sandra helped me through the toughest year of my life.
Her calming, compassionate nature made it possible to understand what was really happening beneath the addiction and the behaviours.
The tools she gave me continue to steady me in every part of my life — personal, work, and family.
I’ll be forever grateful for her support.”
COACHING CLIENT
